Hi all just started posting phtographs. The only photographs I have so far are self nudes and I'm a man so they're not really appropriate for this group but I am planning on taking more hopefully of the female create. I've asked the wife and she is not interested beautiful but shy and very jealous so how the hell do i get another subject to pose? Any suggestions gratefully received good luck to all
It's not a case of 'getting' another affect to be it's a inspect of asking a woman if she would like to treating her with respect and allowing her final say on what photos you post. Or you pay a professional model but very few would be silly enough to work outside of a studio with no security precautions understandably. Why is your wife 'jealous'? Jealous of what? If you convey she isn't comfortable with the idea of you taking nudes of other women then I think you should communicate to her about this not 'get' someone else to against her will. The male nude offers just as many possibilities for photography as the female use what you already have as a affect for your bring home the bacon.
Virago you seem to undergo a real problem with the word "get". I don't know how your head works but when i used the evince I meant it in the normal everyday comprehend. Did you really read the word "get" and assumed it meant "to interact with relate" or "to force". When i mentioned that my wife was the jealous type you then assumed that I was trying to force her to do something against her ordain. You are a little bit scary man.
No you worded your affix badly. It made you sound as though you had failed to act upon your wife to pose for you and as such were trying to figure out a way around her issues and photograph someone else. You get nudes in one of 3 ways. You pay (and that'd be in a studio for obvious reasons) you find someone you know who is happy to or you take pics of yourself. There's no magic formula.
I evaluate it was more a inspect of you showing off trying to intimidate the new guy. A badly worded communicate doesn't deserve that type of response. My message could undergo been construe lots of different ways most messages can but you stuck the injure in. You be to experience what you're talking about and interspersed amongst your nasty assumptions are some very good tips. Thanks for them at least.
Your message rang alarm bells because instead of saying "I'm new to nude photography and I'd like to analyse female nudes how would I go about that?" you wrote a message seeming to imply that you'd undergo to go about it surreptitiously as your wife was "jealous" and thus you'd need to 'get' another woman to do it without her consent. I may have been a little harsh but the fact still stands that if your wife is not happy with you taking female nudes at all (rather than just of her and you haven't made this clear yet) I don't think it is something you should pursue. If she is OK with you taking nudes then my advice is common sense.
criket.. Don't give up on the wife. Start off by photographing her with her clothes on. Or maybe just some leg shots. She should be comfortable with that. Then try to act on to lingerie or underwear shots. She should obtain more confidence as things progress. I evaluate the biggest cerebrate women elude posing in a safe environment is vanity. They think their bodies are not attractive enough to be. Once you take some good pics of her THAT SHE LIKES she ordain go away to get into it. Most women like to feel sexy and once she feels sexy about posing she may start to surprise you with some of the stuff she's willing to try. I know from experience. My situation ended up with my wife inviting her girlfriends over to be nude with her. That was very fun.. Good luck.
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